I don't think they consider themself to be an abuser
They NEVER do. Ever. And most of the time you will never see it until it gets so bad that you'll question your own sanity (assuming you've any left) because nobody else ever seems to see that side...
Until you get away, and then you find out just how much everyone knew about how bad it was for you.
I don't want anyone I know to be able to say "I don't know anyone who's been raped"
I haven't been able to say this truthfully since I was 15. I was not the victim in question. I've met many more in the decade and a half since then.
Part of the reason I don't act "like a girl" is because I am paranoid of this happening to me. (though honestly, I was never all that "girly" to begin with)
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I don't think they consider themself to be an abuser
They NEVER do. Ever. And most of the time you will never see it until it gets so bad that you'll question your own sanity (assuming you've any left) because nobody else ever seems to see that side...
Until you get away, and then you find out just how much everyone knew about how bad it was for you.
I don't want anyone I know to be able to say "I don't know anyone who's been raped"
I haven't been able to say this truthfully since I was 15. I was not the victim in question. I've met many more in the decade and a half since then.
Part of the reason I don't act "like a girl" is because I am paranoid of this happening to me. (though honestly, I was never all that "girly" to begin with)