i meant to respond to this earlier... and Sor totally encouraged me to do so ... but i was rather melted by your response and i've only just reconstituted enough to be able to reply.

Thank you for your support... i was rather blind-sided and as i said, melted by it! i am always surprised when one of Sor's Cool Friends respond to wee insignificant me 'cause i am pretty sure no one is really paying attention. But i guess that is just a lie the negvox are telling me (along with the abuse/rape stuffnthings).

Also, reading your parenthetical note there even now brings wee tears of happiness to my eyes. Thank you :')