I'll note that of my 3, only the officially submitted one is as much about the dom as the sub -- but I tend to bend much more dom than sub. Do doms tend to find submission sexy and vice versa? I'd assume yes, except that when -I- switch in fantasy, I'm still focusing on the submission. (in practice, of course, it's different).
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on 2010-02-24 10:44 pm (UTC)I'll note that of my 3, only the officially submitted one is as much about the dom as the sub -- but I tend to bend much more dom than sub. Do doms tend to find submission sexy and vice versa? I'd assume yes, except that when -I- switch in fantasy, I'm still focusing on the submission. (in practice, of course, it's different).